I came across a poem several years ago that I pull out and review from time to time. It especially hits me as school activities are in full swing and so many other priorities can hold our view. I’d like to share it with you today.

Little Eyes Upon You 

(Author unknown)

There are little eyes upon you

And they’re watching you night and day

There are little ears that quickly take

In every word you say.

There are little hands all eager

To do anything you do,

And a little person who’s dreaming of the day

They’ll be just like you.

You’re that little person’s idol,

You’re the wisest of the wise,

In their little mind about you

No suspicions ever rise.

They believe in you devoutly

And hold all that you say and do,

They will say and do it your way

When they grow up just like you.

There’s a wide-eyed little person

Who believes you’re always right,

And their eyes are always opened

And they’re watching day and night.

You are setting the example

Every day in all you do,

For the little person who is waiting

To grow up to be like you!

In a world that feels increasingly unkind, each and every one of us have the opportunity to shape how a little person will someday feel about themselves, their friends, and their community.

Do you set a good example on the sidelines of a game?

Do you set a good example when you speak about teachers, neighbors, co-workers? We don’t always agree and that is a beautiful thing! Learning to disagree respectfully and responsibly goes a long way!

Do you set a good example of kindness? Saying thank you, holding a door, or taking your turn in line are all small ways that we can impact those around us and, especially, that little person watching what we do.

Keep learning. Keep showing grace and kindness!

Michelle Beran is the 4-H and Youth Development Agent for the Cottonwood District, Barton County office. For more information on this article or other 4-H Youth and Development related questions email Michelle atmberan@ksu.edu or call 620-793-1910.