Twas the night before Christmas and all through the house, not a creature was stirring not even a mouse. Hold on just a minute!
The holidays can be a time of extra stress – money flying out the door, too many places to be in too little time, schedules are upset, foods that we don’t eat every day, and just general chaos!
Plan ahead now for some inexpensive fun ways to just be together. Drag out the books – share one that your child loved when they were small and read it together using your best character voices. Make a trip to the library to pick out a new book – every library has great librarians who would love to make reading recommendations for you!
When is the last time you played “crazy eights”, “old maid”, or had an energetic game of Uno? In addition to using skills of taking turns and being cooperative, youth practice counting and paying attention to details.
Have you put a jigsaw puzzle together as a family? Unless you do these often, don’t start with a 1500 piece complicated one. Pick an easy one that everyone can participate in. Set up a card table in a corner and you may be surprised how often someone stops by it to add a couple of pieces.
Be silly and dance – turn on some music and dance in the living room! It’s good exercise for the body and the brain. Show off those 90’s dance moves and learn a few from your kids. It’s OK if people think we look silly because we are having fun!
Go outside! Take a walk, play kickball, throw a disc or snowball. I grew up on one of the best sledding hills in my town. Even if we only had time for one or two runs, we were throwing ourselves on a sled and racing down the hill. My parents were regular participants in this craziness!
There is an old saying along the lines that people don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care. This applies to your family also – Unplug and Be There!
If you need some inspiration, check out Kansas4-H.org for the 4-H at Home Holiday Activity Guide! This updated guide is filled with inexpensive crafts, science, and fun activities and is located on the right-hand menu at the Kansas 4-H page (or https://4-h.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/08094637/4H-at-Home-Holiday-Activity-Guide-and-Cookie-Making-Recipes-2020.pdf). I love that most of these activities include an idea for community service such as sharing with a neighbor or friend.
During the holiday break, make time to spend time with your kids! Be present because that is what they will remember!
Michelle Beran is the 4-H and Youth Development Agent for the Cottonwood District, Barton County office. For more information on this article or other 4-H Youth and Development related questions email Michelle at mberan@ksu.edu or call 620-793-1910.
